Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

Holly Willoughby has shed light on the inner workings of her marriage. 

The TV host, 40, who has been married to Dan Baldwin since 2007, spoke at An Evening With Holly Willoughby in London last week, while promoting her book Reflections and revealed they would argue when she was ‘angry all the time’. 

She explained that when she connected with her emotions she would get riled which was ‘scary and frightening’ yet the couple then embraced the arguments as it helped them work through any issues quickly. 

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

Her love: Holly Willoughby has shed light on the inner workings of her marriage to Dan Baldwin (pictured in 2016)

Holly explained: ‘What I’ve found is that a lot of the time we like to stay in the safe middle ground where everything is nice and smiley and nothing is ugly…  

‘But when I started to reconnect with my emotions I found I was getting angry all the time. And Dan’s like “I wish you could not be so angry”. So I would be getting really angry and he would be like “I’m not sure this is good”.

‘It was scary and frightening but I thought “Let’s just stick with it and see where it goes”. And now I love it!..

‘Because talking through your problems can take you months or weeks but in a hot flash of anger you’ll shout something and rip the band-aid off. You don’t have to be afraid of it or be scared by it’.  

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

Fury: The TV host, 40, who has been married to Dan Baldwin since 2007, spoke at An Evening With Holly Willoughby in London last week, while promoting her book Reflections and revealed they would argue when she was ‘angry all the time’ 

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

Holly’s insight comes a week after she revealed she felt lost while trying to juggle her busy work and family life, with Dan and kids Harry, 12, Belle, 10, and Chester, seven.  

Holly gushed over her husband of 14 years, quipping it’s ‘fantastic’ that she still fancies him, while discussing how she become disconnected from her sense of self. 

Holly said on Zoe Ball’s Radio 2 show: ‘I have a very happy relationship with my husband. I love him, I still fancy him – which is fantastic.’ 

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

Family fun: Holly’s insight comes a week after she revealed she felt lost while trying to juggle her busy work and family life, with Dan and kids Harry, 12, Belle, 10, and Chester, seven

Yet she elaborated on Heart Radio: ‘The last few years I’ve kind of been looking inward a little bit. And I sort of got to this stage in life where I was like “I’ve got a really lovely life, I love my husband, I fancy my husband. I’ve got great kids. I’m very blessed in many, many ways, but something is missing.”

‘And I couldn’t work out what it was, and eventually having looked inwardly, I sort of went “God, it’s me! I’m missing!” I’d spent my whole life kind of doing this long to-do list, tick-list, like “da, da, da, da, da”and we run, and we keep going and we keep going, keep going… 

‘And I suddenly thought “I don’t know who I am, I don’t even know what music I like, I don’t know what my tastes are anymore.”‘ 

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

, Holly Willoughby details her angry outbursts at husband Dan Baldwip, The Evepost Huff News

Changes: She spoke at the event about her marriage